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Playing with Italian Glass PDF Print E-mail
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Monday, 10 May 2010 01:03
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Hand-crafted Italian glass beads come in all forms! And the colors are a designer's
dream. Here are a few of my latest creations. More at EssieB Jewelry Design on
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Hold to Your Dream PDF Print E-mail
Written by Suzanne   
Sunday, 18 April 2010 18:33
wilma_rudolphWilma Rudolph 1960 Rome Today at Center for Spiritual Living in San Jose we had a wonderful guest speaker, Reverend Harriet Hawkins. As part of her talk she told the story of Wilma Rudolph who was born prematurely in June, 1940 at just 4.5lbs. Wilma was the 20th of 22 kids in a poor, Tennessee family. As a young child, she survived scarlet fever, chicken pox, measles, whooping cough and infantile paralysis caused by the polio virus. This left her with a twisted leg and no hope from medical professionals that she would recover the use of her leg or ever walk again.

Wilma's mother, a steadfast voice of possibility, believed in another outcome; that her daughter WOULD walk again. And she did everything she could to make certain it would happen. Very often the physical therapy Wilma endured was painful. Day after day, week after week, month after month, year after year, Wilma held to her dream to be like other children. Even with the pain of physical therapy multiple times each day and long stretches of time with no visible change in her condition, Wilma chose, with the support of her mother, to believe in her dream.

Wilma's story is a dramatic one. She went from no hope of ever walking again, to walking with a brace at eight years and by the age of twelve, she ditched the brace altogether and began to enjoy her dream of living like the other kids. She took up basketball in school and in tenth grade was spotted by the track and field coach at Tennessee State. The rest is history... Olympic history! In 1960 in Rome, she took home three gold track and field medals; making Wilma the first American woman to do so in a single Olympic Games.

Here is what stood out to me about Wilma's story...

Even with a strong belief, even certitude in something and tireless, even painful, action toward it, there may be little or NO tangible evidence that change is occurring. Yikes! In our world of instant gratification, THAT is an adjustment! "...little or NO tangible evidence that change is occurring." For me, especially in the last 18 months, this is very familiar! Is it familiar to you?

What is your dream? Whatever it is, I encourage you to keep it close. Take bold action toward it multiple times each day... EVERY day! Yep, even on days it feels painful... maybe even more so on those days! And bless those well intended "voices of reason" in your life who say you cannot achieve  it... they are welcome to their opinion ... while you keep your eye on your desire. They, especially, remind us to surround ourselves with people who DO believe in the possibility of our dreams! And while days, weeks, months, even years may pass without "proof" manifesting in our lives... remember Wilma Rudolph.  Dreams DO come true... and THEN SOME!

Rev Harriet Hawkins shares her spiritual evolution which began with a mysical experience in childhood on her blog... Christ Becoming.
 
A Matter of Perspective PDF Print E-mail
Written by Suzanne   
Thursday, 08 April 2010 23:54

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Fallen, Dead Tree... Roadside Art?
It's all a matter of perspective.
What will you see?
How I respond or react to something is all a matter of perspective. And let me tell you, there are days when it's an active and very conscious choice to shift my perspective! When things occur that interrupt, derail, sidetrack or otherwise divert my day, it's all about who I choose to be in the the presence of what's occurring. Let's face it, stuff happens! I can get all angry and righteous, "I had to STOP what I was doing and take THREE HOURS to write a letter that allowed everyone to win when all I really wanted was to write a letter that said, I'm Pissed Off!!!" Or, in another instance... "Grrrr! I went totally out of my way for a new client today and in a span of THREE minutes they forgot I was making a special trip over to see them and TOTALY stood me up! REALLY?!?"

Now, I could get all bent out of shape and carry these forward in my day... my week... collect agreement and commiseration from friends and thereby grow these petty annoyances into riveting page turners that well outlive their 15 minutes of fame. OR, after a momentary hissy fit in my parked car, I could opt for new perspectives... "WOW! It only took me three hours to write a letter that insures I get what I require AND has everyone thinking it was their brilliant idea! What a great skill I have and how cool is it, that if I ever need to write a similar letter again... Copy, paste, revise and send! And, instead of sitting through a tedious all-day seminar to learn how to do all this, I did it  in only THREE hours! Woo hoo! Lucky me!"

Or, the other example... "Cool! In only forty five minutes I found out that this one particular service I provide is best reserved for established clients who know me and value my time. With a mere forty five minute investment, I've managed to save countless hours of lost time and frustration in the future! How does it get any better than that? Yippee!!!"

As I mentioned, some days it's a stretch for me to get to this place. Sometimes I'll notice myself enjoying the chemical buzz I get from the anger or indignation and begrudgingly pry myself away from the chemical payoff of the emotions in order to make another choice. This way of flipping things around keeps my momentum forward and my head in a space of gratitude for what is. And in gratitude for what is... WHATEVER it is... SO much more is possible.

 
Buddy Up for Success PDF Print E-mail
Written by Suzanne   
Wednesday, 07 April 2010 12:56
Friends know that mornings have historically been a challenge, yet when I start the day out on a high note, I've set the tone for what's to follow! I desired TWO things... ONE, make consitient progress writing my book and TWO, to get outside and be active in this beautiful part of the country. The best time for me to do these  things? In the early morning! Yikes!!! For me to make these mornings happen would require a little help from my friends. Once again, the key was for me to reach out... to connect with other people... to ask for, and actively create support and accountability, as I morphed into my new ways.

So, I took a deep breath and picked up the phone. Things evolved over about a year and now I have two writing partners! One is local  to me and the other's in the LA area.  My Monday partner and I meet in person and on Wednesday it's a Skype video call; bed-head and all! On both days we write 7-10am. Look out world... here comes Intentional Word!

I also have a hiking buddy on Tuesday and Friday. Our current hike of choice is Fremont Older Open Space Preserve where we romp for 90min. We've spoted spotted all manner of wildlife and have enjoyed some beautiful sunrises from the ridge , all because we meet at 6:30am! And let me tell you, as much as I love a good sunrise, it's the fact that my buddy's sitting in that parking lot waiting on me that gets me up and out the door at that hour!

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7am Skype video calls are great...
It's coffee & bed-head for all!



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What's something that's a challenge for You? What's been on your DO list for a while that you'd LOVE to be doing? Ok, now...  Who do you know that you could buddy up with? Take a minute and scroll through your phone... mentaly plumb your networks... take a look through your Facebook friends, email lists and Linkedin contacts. I've learned that so much more possible in partnership with others and encourage everyone to reach out and partner up! So it's time for a double dog dare... get out your gadget of choice... Now, reach out and touch someone, people! Start a new day right now!

Shout outs to  bahiker.com and  scbrandomadventures.blogspot.com for getting the word out on hiking in the bay area! And to Skype! It's free to download and use... It's simply wonderful!
 
Bright Lights in MyLife PDF Print E-mail
Written by Suzanne   
Tuesday, 06 April 2010 20:28
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This has been a wonderful week. And it's only Tuesday! It makes a BIG difference when you have people holding the possibility of your vision as you grow into it! People who see in you that unique gift you bring to the world... people who get what you're saying even when clarity is another few miles away... people who are themselves bright lights in the world and examples of what is possible. These three folks have been especially bright in my life this week! Much love to Abigail Schairer, Cassandra Rae and Alan Ruffin!

When you have a big vision or when you're in the midst of a transformation and mired in details and moment to moment change... when you're not sure which end is up or where the next step will take you... in these times especially, having friends holding the high watch is wonderful! They see though all the "stuff" clouding your view and KNOW the the bigger turth of who you are!

Are you growing into a big vision? Are you in the midst of a personal or professional transformation? If so, I encourage you to reach out to those friends who always have your back and champion you at every turn. Ask them to be part of your crew! Part of the team that holds the greatest vision of what's possible for you. Tell them your dream... your intention and allow them to be your torch bearers, to carry a bright and steady light for you as you create or become all you desire! Who would you ask? ...now... I double dog dare ya to pick up the phone or drop them an email right now! You GO with your FAB self!


Abigail Schairer is a Science of Mind practitioner at the Center for Spiritual Living San Jose. Coach Cassandra Rae works with Bay Area fempreneurs as they connect with their heart and open to their soul's calling. Alan Ruffin is a flash and web designer in Chicago and a gifted musician with two bands, Silver Atlas (original music) and Kid-A (a Radiohead tribute band).
 
What is Intentional Word? PDF Print E-mail
Written by Suzanne   
Monday, 05 April 2010 00:29
Intentional_word_stones Intentional Word is an invitation to become very conscious about the power of our words as we observe our habitual use of language and begin to choose with intention the words we use. We are often oblivious to the ways our words reflect, like a mirror, the relationship we have with our beliefs and how even subtle changes in our words have a dramatic impact on our experience. In daily practice, Intentional Word can be as powerful as meditation, prayer and yoga. Moment by moment we adjust course and bring ourselves into alignment with what we desire.    ~ s.e. bayles



 
Guitar & Jewelry MashUp PDF Print E-mail
Written by Suzanne   
Saturday, 03 April 2010 21:00
Hey there folks! This is my first attempet at a video for my jewelry. It started out as a Slideshare presentation for my Linkedin profile and took on a life of its own! Jim Green a brilliant percussive guitarist  and songwriter, aka The Wandering Endorphin, allowed me to use "Firefly" my favorite of his instumentals, as music for the video. If you have two extra minutes, DEFINITELY watch Jim play it recorded live in Chicago. (2nd video below)

Keep in mind... it's ONE guy, ONE guitar, ONE take and NO looping! WOW! Jim, you continue to blow me away!



 
The ROADENTS - Funny! PDF Print E-mail
Written by Suzanne   
Saturday, 03 April 2010 17:54
roadents_bixpix Ok, I admit it... I LOVE these guys! The Roadents on YouTube is described as, "Two guinea pigs stuck in a 1983 Winnebago. Meet the Roadents, Pee Pee and Buttercup, as they happily travel the highways of America, and get on each other's nerves."

If you enjoy your humor bite sized and on the dry side, I'm sure you'll get a kick out of these two minute video snacks! Thanks to Kelli Bixler and her creative team at BixPix Entertainment, I now have a laugh any time I need one. My favorite episodes are Beef Barn and Oficer Pig. Enjoy!

 
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Born and raised just outside Philadelphia, I moved to Chicago after college and San Jose in 2008. I now have two decades of experience in jewelry design including countless hours of mentoring by expert artisans and ten “hands on” years in fine jewelry manufacturing. As a result I bring a wealth of knowledge about materials, craftsmanship and style to the table. Beyond jewelry, I have a passion for words and the intentional use of language. I believe we create our experience in life and am writing a book on the topic because I am curious… What else is possible? ~ Suzanne Bayles

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